Moments

Yesterday we took advantage of grandparent proximity. We left our four children with Josh's parents and Josh and I took off (at 6:45am) for the day! I always feel a little bad asking them to watch our children for long periods of time - mostly because I don't want to exhaust them! But they were willing and Josh and I were in need of some time together. It's always a little nerve-wracking. Even though I *know* that Nina raised 6 children and is more capable than I am in that department...this is my baby that only I know best. I read her signs and know her needs. But I'm learning to let go and realize that it is GOOD for Kenna to interact with other people!!

You know, we do spend time together in the evenings, but somehow that is not quite the same.

So what did we do? First, we jetted to Oakland to hit the Temple. It's been AGES. Because first I was uncomfortably pregnant, then nursing, and then just so overwhelmingly busy. It was so wonderful to be at the temple again. I especially love being there with my husband. I love our whispered conversations and quiet pondering side by side. That's a pretty rare occurrence! We'll be going at least once more before this baby is born.

Next, we stopped at the Emeryville Public Market for lunch. Divine is the best word that comes to mind. I love, love, love eating there. I got a Mediterranean vegetarian plate with Tabouli, curried rice, falafels, and pita bread (and baklava for dessert). Josh chose to get his lunch from the Afghan place that had spicy chicken and a different kind of rice (not sure what it was). We enjoyed the different flavors. Love ethnic food.

Then we ran errands. We picked up a frozen fruit order for the Relief Society sisters and went to Costco together. I have been doing all of the major food shopping by myself. It was so nice to have strong muscles to push that heavy cart around the stores. AND no children getting antsy as we stopped to browse through the book isle (okay, maybe I get antsy after awhile because Josh could seriously spend HOURS there).

Altogether we were gone less than 12 hours. When I walked in the door my little baby was bopping her head to some music and laughing. She climbed right on my lap and laughed to show how happy she was to see me...but also what fun she'd had that day!

The lesson here is that taking time for your marriage is the best thing you can do for your family! And we aren't doing it often enough! Josh and I had some great discussions and enjoyed our time together. I really need to remember to arrange these little trips more often (or even shorter versions).

Oh...and if I can ever babysit for anyone while YOU go out with your love, just give me a call!